Marriage Accelerator Program

The Foundations For Connection:

Stop the pain, chaos, and confusion: build connection, clarity, and the relationship you desire in 90 days

Marriage Accelerator Program

Your once amazing relationship has turned into a nightmare. There's no quality time or shared moments—just tense encounters filled with blame. They've become dismissive and disrespectful. You feel unappreciated, managing everything while feeling uncertain about the future. Does this sound familiar?

This program is a lifeline designed for those navigating the chaos and confusion of never ending conflict.

A decade of experience and thousands of hours of helping countless hurting couples has shaped insights into a practical 90-day plan. This journey isn't just about my experiences; it's about sharing condensed wisdom, empowering you to rewrite your relationship's story from difficulty to having a kick ass marriage.

Among trapped couples, I've heard stories of lost love and disconnection, phrases like, "We've tried everything, but nothing seems to solve the problem," or "The hurt runs too deep; I fear we can't heal."

The path to healing can feel overwhelming when the way forward seems impossible, but I've learned that most couples can reach a concrete plan—a beacon of hope for a brighter future. I’ve refined the skill of pinpointing root issues, nurturing genuine understanding between partners, and guiding them to rediscover their love.

Join me on your very own 90-day journey to reclaim your essence, reignite your passion, and rediscover your shared purpose.

Common Problems You’re Facing:

  • Partner's work consumes them, neglecting the relationship

  • Conflict, pain, and a sense of isolation prevail

  • Quality time and excitement vanished, replaced by tension

  • Partner's drastic change, dismissive and disrespectful

  • Overwhelmed and unappreciated

  • Financial weight and uncertainty, shared goals forgotten

Our Solutions:

  • A comprehensive roadmap with concrete steps to follow

  • A focus on rebuilding foundations and mastering communication

  • Stop resentment in its tracks and break repetitive cycles of hurt

  • Coping mechanisms for persistent frustrations, and steps to resolve them

  • Strategies to transform conversations into tangible changes

What We Will Cover

Phase 1: Stop the Chaos

We will explore the depths of emotions and untold narratives shaping your bond. Identify destructive habits and concealed chaos that fuels the disconnect. It's time for a transformative revelation.

Phase 2: Rebuilding from Within

Seize control of destructive cycles and steer your story towards positivity. Initiate powerful actions to reignite the lost connection, breathing life into your relationship once more.

Phase 3: Reigniting Purpose and Passion

Define the profound significance of your union and nurture the love that binds you. Envision a future overflowing with shared meaning and a legacy forged together. The time is now—unlock the hidden potential of your partnership!

Today's efforts shape tomorrow's bonds. Your dedication fuels the relationship you envision. Trust the program; if it falls short, a prorated refund ensures your path to the future you desire.

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The Cost Of Not Doing Anything

  • Divorce Expenses: Average $10,000 to $20,000 for legal battles and fees, draining your savings.

  • Property Division: Splitting assets could mean losing hundreds of thousands or even millions..

  • Lost Earning Potential: Emotional distress at work could cost thousands in missed opportunities.

The price of unresolved marital issues is staggering. Legal battles, loss of time with children, asset losses, ongoing payments, and career setbacks could drain your finances, amounting to a mountain of emotional and financial stress. Seeking proactive guidance now can spare you these crippling costs in the future.

How it Works

This transformative program offers a lifeline to revive a fading connection in the following ways:

  • Comprehensive Roadmap: Rescue marriages from the brink by rebuilding foundations and mastering communication.

  • Powerful Techniques: Stop resentment, break cycles of hurt, and provide coping mechanisms for persistent frustrations.

  • Tangible Changes: Reshape conversations into actionable steps, rescuing relationships from unfulfilled promises.

  • Rediscover Beauty: Uncover the vibrant beauty within your marriage and break free from conflicts.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Traditional counseling offers valuable tools, but our Strategic Marriage Accelerator Program is your personalized roadmap, crafted to alleviate pain, confusion, and chaos, fostering the lasting connection you deeply yearn for within a transformative 90-day journey.

  • Absolutely. Your confidentiality is a non-negotiable priority throughout the Stratigic Marriage Accelerator Program. Your trust and comfort are paramount, guided by legal and ethical standards.

    What's the duration of the program? Spanning 90 days, our program is your strategic guide to quell turmoil, restore clarity, and forge the relationship you desire. Extendable support is available post the initial 90 days at a discounted rate per month.

  • Start with a heartfelt, complimentary consultation. It's an opportunity for us to listen, understand your unique situation, and explore together how the Strategic Marriage Accelerator Program can align with your aspirations for a fulfilling relationship.

  • Understanding hesitation is key. Our program offers a clear roadmap with defined objectives, helping hesitant partners grasp the journey ahead and fostering mutual commitment and engagement.

  • Absolutely! To secure your consultation and embark on this transformative journey, a fully refundable $100 deposit is required. After the consultation, the deposit is promptly returned, no strings attached.

  • I have been there, I personally know what it is like to be in the shoes of anger, hurt, and hopelessness. As a young adult I struggled with anxiety and depression, failed relationships, and finding ways to numb the hurt and disappointment. As a result I felt trapped, suffocated, and passionless. So, I left a hundred thousand dollar a year job and relocated from the Bay Area, a place I was born and raised for thirty years, and moved to Redding to pursue my passion. And, I have not regretted that decision, for now I find victory and restoration in my story.

    In working to heal and restore my heart, I continue to be able to make choices to live a life which is rich and rewarding. I have been married to my wife for the last 13 years and we are raising three beautiful children, four dogs, and two cats. Because of my family, I am passionate about staying up to date on relationship and marriage through workshops like “Hold Me Tight” by Sue Johnson, 7 Principles For Making Marriage Work, as well as how to help children grow and thrive (I am trained in the parenting technique of Love and Logic) and Host Workshops for 24/7 Dad. I can understand the struggle of work life balance.

    My journey to become a Marriage and Family Therapist has been interesting and rewarding. Growing up in the Bay Area, I typically found myself in positions of mentorship, whether as a ice hockey coach for youth or in numerous positions of leadership growing and developing individuals to be stronger versions of themselves. I found this desire to teach and support others to be the calling in which I have found great fulfillment and joy.

    In 2006, I moved from the Bay Area to Redding to pursue my education. After receiving my Bachelors in Liberal Studies in 2008, I decided to pursue my Masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy in 2009. The decision to become a Marriage and Family Therapist has been one of the most transformative adventures in my life.

    During my time in my Masters’ program, I was trained as a systems therapist from an attachment perspective. What this means is, I view distress in people’s life from a holistic and relational point of view. Therefore, part of our working together will be to explore how relational influences of the past and present are influencing the distress in your current narrative. I fully believe how we present in our adult relationships is due to what we may have experienced, or how we interpreted messages from close attachment relationships growing up.

    Additionally, my passion to work with couples was influenced by being invited to co-lecture on topics such as “Working with Couples in Conflict” and “Overcoming Trust and Attachment Issues following Couples’ Infidelity.” I was also fortunate to co-develop and lead a small group of men though sexual acting out behavior in which men learned the importance of vulnerability, trust, and fuller relationship. All of these experiences have helped me gain a particular passion for working with individuals and couples from a systemic relational perspective.

    If you choose to work with me, you will find a compassionate and caring person who knows just how deeply some of our past injuries and choices can influence the current situation.  I have spent the majority of my career as a therapist learning how to guide and direct my clients to fuller relationship, deeper insight into interpersonal stressors, and gaining the ability to wrestle with vulnerability so they do not have to suffer with anxiety, depression, loneliness, and addiction.

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Register Now To Get Started!

The Marriage Accelerator Program only allows 10 couples per quarter. Secure your spot before slots are gone! Join us as we show you how to reconnect with your partner in just 90 days!

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